Wednesday, May 23, 2007

Kuch Baatein....

Mere Khat
**********************************************************

"Aaj jab maine uthaye apne saare khat
jalane ke liye
to ve bole mujhse
mat jalao humein,mat satao humein
satao us bewaffa ko jaker
kya milega tumhe humko jalaker.
Maine kaha dekhta hoon tumhe
to yaad aati hai wo judai
jab hoge hi nahin tum to
kaise yaad aayegi uski bewaffai
Achanak chillaya uska pahla khat
"Gar jalakar humein tum bhool jaoge use
To beshak jala do humein
Magar ek wada karo ,
humein jalane ke baad
humari raakh main
tum dhoondhege nahin
uske haathon se likha wo
tumahara naam,
ya uska bewaffai bhara wo
aakhiri paigam""**********************************************************
"Pratham Pyer"
**********************************************************pata nahin kaun ho tum meri
kis janam ka hai ye bandhan
kyun milti ho mujhse
kyun phir chali jati ho
kyun mujhe sirf tum
sirf tum yaad aati ho..
main tumhare deewano main
ek adna sa deewana hoon
--
chaand jaisa awara nahin hoon
jo raaton main tumhre gher
ke chakker lagaon
pawan jaisa beshram bhi nahin hoon
jo tumhre tan ko spersh kerta
hua chala jaon
samander nahin hoon,jisse kerti
hogi tum baaten
un sitaron main se koi bhi
sitara nahin hoon
jinhe ginti hogi tum
saari saari raaten
wo phool nahin ho jiski penkhuri
tod tod ker girati hogi tum
jab kabhi mere baare main sonchte hue
apne gher ke chakker lagati hogi tum
mujhse kahin achha hai tumhara
wo dupattajo chodta na hoga tumhe ,
chahekarti hogi kitne yatan
aur wo tumhre haathon ke kangan
tumhe swapna se uthate honge
jab kabhi sote hue tumhre
haath aapas main lad jaate honge
wo darpan tumhe roz hi dekhta hoga
jab karti hogi tum shringaar
per main tumhe sayad hi dekh paon is
jeevan main e mere pratham pyar........
dharati bhi kabhi aasmaa se mil nahin pati
per kshitiz in dono ko milata hai,
samnder bhi do kinaron ko paas lata hai
ab dekhna hai ki wo mera iswar
mujhe tumse milwata hai
ya youn hi ek gareeb ko wirah
ki aag main jalata hai...**********************************************************
Main
**********************************************************Aaj kisi ki yaad aayi
do aansoo bhi gire
aur na jaane kahan kho gaye
main bus dhoondhata raha farsh
per unke nishaan
per kuch na mila
tab uthayi maine apni
purani ek diary
aur dhoondhana suru kiya
uska naam
per kuch panne gayab
mile,aur
nahin mila uska naam bhi
kuch shabd dikhe jo ki
itne berahmi se kaate gaye the
ki unhe padhpana namumkin tha....
tabhi mann main khayal aaya
ki uski ek tasveer
thi mere paas
maine poori almaari chaan daali,
briefcase chaan dala,
apne kamre ka har ek
kona chaan dala,
tab mili ek tasveer aur
wo bhi mere takiye ke neeche se
per............
per ye to 'main' tha
wahi purana 'main'**********************************************************

Thursday, May 17, 2007

SELF-ESTEEM





A beggar was sitting at the train station with a bowl full of pencils. A
young executive passed by and dropped a dollar in the bowl. He then
boarded the train. Before the doors


closed, something came to his mind and he went back to the beggar,
grabbed a bunch of pencils, and said, "They are priced right.. After all you are
a business person and so am I," and he left.

Six months later, the executive attended a party. The beggar was also
There in a suit and tie. The beggar recognized the executive, went up to him
And said, "You probably don't recognize me but I remember you." He then
narrated the incident that happened six months before. The executive
said, "Now that you have reminded me, I do recall that you were begging. What
are you doing here in your suit and tie?" The beggar replied, "You probably
don't know what you did for me that day. You were the first person in my
life who gave me back my dignity. You grabbed the bunch of pencils and
said, 'They are priced right. After all, you are a business person and
so am 1.' After you left, I thought to myself, what am I doing here? Why am
I begging? I decided to do something constructive with my life. I packed
My bag, started working and here I am. I Just want to thank you for giving
Me back my dignity. That incident changed my life."


What changed in the beggar's life?


What changed was that his self-esteem went up and so did his
performance. This is the magic of self-esteem in our lives. Simply put, self-esteem
is how we feel about ourselves. Our opinion of ourselves critically
influences everything, from our performance at work, our relationships, and our
role as a parent to our accomplishments in life. Self esteem is a major
component in determining success or failure. High self-esteem leads to a
happy, gratifying and purposeful life. Unless you perceive yourself as
worthwhile, you cannot have high self-esteem. All great world leaders
and teachers throughout history have concluded that one must be internally
driven in order to be a success.


We transfer our unconscious self-appraisal to others and they respond to
Us accordingly. People with high self-esteem grow in conviction, competence
and willingness to accept responsibility. They face life with optimism, have better relationships
and fulfilling lives. They are motivated and ambitious. They are more
sensitive. Their performance and risk taking ability go up. They are
open to new opportunities and challenges. They can give and receive criticism
and compliments, tactfully, and with ease.



Self-esteem is a feeling which comes from an awareness of what is good
And having done it.

tho phir all the best...

Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Famous Sayings

" As you get older three things happen. The first is your memory goes, and I can't remember the other two... "
Sir Norman Wisdom

"
One of the most difficult things in the world is to convince a woman that even a bargain costs money. "
Edgar Watson Howe

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A true friend is one who overlooks your failures and tolerates your success!
"
Doug Larson

"
A harmful truth is always better then...a useful lie!
"
Eric Bolton

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When I was a kid I used to pray every night for a new bike. Then I realized that The Lord doesn't work that way, so I stole one and asked him to forgive me.
"
Erno Philips

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I only go to work on days that don't end in a 'y'.
"
Robert Paul

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We spend the first twelve months of our children's lives teaching them to walk and talk and the next twelve telling them to sit down and shut up.
"
Phyllis Diller

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Laughter is the closest distance between two people.
"
Victor Borge

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Start every day with a smile and get it over with.
"
W.C. Fields

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Everything is funny as long as it is happening to somebody else.
"
Will Rogers

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Always get married early in the morning. That way, if it doesn't work out, you haven't wasted a whole day.
"
Mickey Rooney

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Women now have choices. They can be married, not married, have a job, not have a job, be married with children, unmarried with children.
Men have the same choice we've always had: work or prison.
"
Tim Allen

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I'm not afraid to die. I just don't want to be there when it happens.
"
Woody Allen

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Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't.
"
Erica Jong

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Don't take life too seriously, you'll never get out of it alive.
"
Elbert Hubbard

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Always and never are two words you should always remember never to use.
"
Wendell Johnson

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In life, it's not who you know that's important, it's how your wife found out.
"
Joey Adams

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I've been in love with the same woman for forty-one years. If my wife finds out, she'll kill me.
"
Henry Youngman

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Have you noticed that all the people in favor of birth control are already born ?
"
Benny Hill